The present is called a present because it is a gift to be cherished, yet we are busy planning the future; why? Friends, family, money, health, success, happiness....we have it all, yet we feel incomplete; why? At times life is so simple, a neatly drawn portrait, a beautiful painting, yet it feels so complicated and cluttered; why?
I dont want to get away with it just by saying its human nature! Reasons and answers are important and i want to poke myself and search the answers; then another thought comes, does it is actually necessary to even bother myself and look for such answers; are these questions really valid; is it worth all the confusion and chaos??? Is it important to study such ironies and seek clarifications?
Parents...they are the support mechanism of our life, then why we have difference of opinion with them, why we want to break all the rules imposed by them, why is it that we think we have grown big enough not to be guided by them for every little thing and we should be let on our own to manage things in life, yet one miss them the most at time when one is not with them, they are the ones who we remember the first every time we are in a mess and we need a helping hand; why?
They say friends are the real blessings.....is it so? then why do one feel bad about the actions/inactions of friends....makes one think -is it a good idea to bank your emotions on friends or is it wise to be friends with people just for fun? Expectations, attachement and emotions become a part of relationship with friends without you even knowing this!
We fight with our siblings the most, hate them for taking our share of chocolates unduly and breaking the favorite toys, yet turn look up to them to seek every small advice and seek acceptance of all the small or big decisions in life we want to take; why? We take up a fight intentionally for petty issues with our girlfriend/boyfriend, just to see how the issue is resolved, how much importance is given and what sweet things are done to reconcile with you, we keep finding faults and blame with everyone for not being up to the expectations, yet she/he is the first person we seek to share small joys of life; why? its her/him we find to seek a shoulder to cry our heart out; why?
Life is so simple, yet we make it so complicated; why?
I dont want to get away with it just by saying its human nature! Reasons and answers are important and i want to poke myself and search the answers; then another thought comes, does it is actually necessary to even bother myself and look for such answers; are these questions really valid; is it worth all the confusion and chaos??? Is it important to study such ironies and seek clarifications?
Parents...they are the support mechanism of our life, then why we have difference of opinion with them, why we want to break all the rules imposed by them, why is it that we think we have grown big enough not to be guided by them for every little thing and we should be let on our own to manage things in life, yet one miss them the most at time when one is not with them, they are the ones who we remember the first every time we are in a mess and we need a helping hand; why?
They say friends are the real blessings.....is it so? then why do one feel bad about the actions/inactions of friends....makes one think -is it a good idea to bank your emotions on friends or is it wise to be friends with people just for fun? Expectations, attachement and emotions become a part of relationship with friends without you even knowing this!
We fight with our siblings the most, hate them for taking our share of chocolates unduly and breaking the favorite toys, yet turn look up to them to seek every small advice and seek acceptance of all the small or big decisions in life we want to take; why? We take up a fight intentionally for petty issues with our girlfriend/boyfriend, just to see how the issue is resolved, how much importance is given and what sweet things are done to reconcile with you, we keep finding faults and blame with everyone for not being up to the expectations, yet she/he is the first person we seek to share small joys of life; why? its her/him we find to seek a shoulder to cry our heart out; why?
Life is so simple, yet we make it so complicated; why?
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